Know How is Your Man


How do i know the guy i am with is really in love with me?? Nobody can answer this question except you and how you feel when you are with him. But still here are some points which can help you decide. This may not be completely true for you as your guy is different all together or you are too early to decide this. But this would help to some extent as these questions can make you think in the right direction.

Know How is Your Man

  • He includes you in his future plans.
  • He doesn’t spend money on luxury items, because he thinks they are too expensive. But he would buy a luxury item for you on every special occasion.
  • He won’t just go watch TV after dinner; he will take out the trash and wash dishes for you.
  • He won’t force you to have sex when you tell him you are exhausted from a hard day’s work.
  • He doesn’t mind you using and browsing his computer because he has nothing to hide.
  • He encourages you to do anything that pleases you.
  • Joins a class with you as you need a partner and he needs to spend time with you.
  • He is your guide and friend.
  • Loves you, supports you, criticizes you but boosts you at the same time.
  • When you are having a mood swing, he will try to comfort and pamper you.
  • He is willing to go to a market and buy tampons for you when it is necessary.
  • He thinks you are cute when you are acting and being hysterical.
  • He is willing to watch a chick flick with you even if he hates it.
  • When you tell him you are feeling insecure, he will take it very seriously and take actions.
  • He hugs you all the time.
  • He kisses you all the time.
  • When he is having sex with you, it feels like making love.
  • He never makes your physical flaws, ruin your confidence in yourself.
  • While having sex he makes you comfortable in your skin.
  • Give you confidence that he loves you for what you are.
  • He feels sorry when he works overtime because he cannot be with you and compensates it as and when he can.
  • He says “I love you” every single day.
  • Everything he does, he does it for you.
  • When you are alone you don’t feel lonely, because you know his heart is always with you.
  • When you are upset, he truly cares about why.
  • If he missed your call, he will call you back as soon as he can.
  • He doesn’t bother you about your past; he lets the past be in the past. Trusts you beyond everything and above everyone.
  • When he has a business trip, he wants to take you with him.
  • He always gets something for you when he is back from a business trip.
  • He calls you or contacts you whenever he can when he is away from you.
  • When he’s away he sees to it that you don’t feel alone and refreshes you with his love every time.
  • He remembers everything you said .Every causal promise made to you or your loved ones is important for him, though you might forget it.
  • You look taller than him when you wear high heels, and he appreciates the fact that you stand tall but he doesn’t mind.
  • He doesn’t let you do all the house cleaning, he is more than willing to help for him it’s never helping you it’s always being able to spend time with you.
  • When you are sick, he will stay by your side. If not by your side he will see to it that you are taking proper care of yourself.
  • If he is not able to trace you he loses his mind and makes every possible call n attempts to find you.
  • When there is an earthquake he will hold you tight in his arms.
  • He thinks you look pretty without makeup, loves you as you are and does not ask you change for him.
  • When you and he are talking heart to heart, you can see his emotional side.
  • He gets jealous whenever you are talking or giving more attention to other men or even woman.
  • When you and he are fighting, he always apologizes first or at least tries to win you back.
  • He doesn’t mind when you try to give him a hickie on his chest.
  • He gives you compliments all the time.
  • He is willing to spend his leisure time to fix your computer for you.
  • When you do something wrong, he tries his best to let it go.
  • When there is a long vacation, he will include you in his vacation plan.
  • He brings you your favorite flowers.
  • He shows you his vulnerable side that his friends never know about.
  • He has your pictures in his cell phone.
  • When he is sick, he won’t let you drink from his glass.
  • He remembers your favorite song and movie.
  • He calls you by that cute nickname that he gave you.
  • No matter what happens, he is always on your side.
  • When someone is rude to you, he will stand up and defend you.
  • He is willing to go grocery shopping with you; even if you would take more than 40 minutes browsing.
  • He is willing to go the mall with you; even if you would take hours to find a dress.
  • He surprises you with a pair of Celine Dion concert tickets; even if he hates her music to the core.
  • He surprises you with a necklace that you always wanted.
  • Whenever he is having his favorite dessert, he shares it with you.
  • He gets upset when you sleep late, because he worries about your heath more than anything.
  • He always holds your hand in public.
  • He is willing to carry your purse when your arms are sore; even though he thinks it is embarrassing.
  • He doesn’t complain when you have gained weight.
  • When you arrive late on your date, he still smiles.
  • He doesn’t yell at you.
  • He never lays his hands on you during an argument.
  • He compliments you in front of his friends.
  • When he is going to hang out with his friends, he invites you to come along.
  • When you ask him over and over about his feelings, he doesn’t get impatient.
  • When you are being paranoid towards his friendship with his female friends, he is willing to explain.
  • When you play chess, he always let you win on purpose.
  • He always tries his best to keep his promises.
  • When he has gone out with his friends, he will always pack some snacks for you.
  • He doesn’t turn his cell phone on silent when he is with you.
  • When you cook for him, he will finish everything.
  • He is willing to watch Sex and City with you, even though he hates it.
  • He wears the ring you bought for him every day.
  • He spoils you because he loves you.
  • When he doesn’t like the way you dress, he will remind you but he never criticizes you.
  • He never forgets your birthday.
  • He never forgets your anniversary.
  • He will always give you something on Christmas and Valentine.
  • When you are jealous, he is willing to take time to explain.
  • When you and he are arguing, he is willing to back down even if he was right.
  • He tells that you are irreplaceable.
  • When you are promoted at work, he is happier than you are.
  • He never pressurizes you to do anything you don’t want to do.
  • He puts your feelings before his own.
  • When he is exhausted, he is still willing to listen to your feelings.
  • When there is an issue, he is willing to communicate.
  • If something comes up and he has to cancel the date, he will make it up to you.
  • He doesn’t get angry when you missed his call.
  • When his mother doesn’t like you, he defends you.
  • When his mother is being rude to you, he will try to defend you.
  • He downloads your favorite music for you.
  • When you cancel your date to go out with your girlfriends, he will understand.
  • He cuddles you to sleep.
  • He kisses you good morning and good night.
  • He lets you know that your happiness is his happiness.
  • When you do something wrong, if he forgives you, he will never mention it again.
  • He is willing to show he is in a relationship with you on his Facebook.
  • He doesn’t mind to let know his Facebook account password.
  • He won’t let you carry any heavy object; he will carry it for you.
  • When he goes clubbing, he will not go without you.
  • When he goes out drinking, he wants you to come along.
  • He will always treat you with respect. Even during arguments.
  • He will call you on his trip to check if you are doing fine, and to let you know he is ok.
  • He doesn’t mind when you ask him about his work schedule.
  • When something wonderful happens, you are the first person he wants to share the good news with.
  • He showers you with love, tenderness, and patience.
  • He is willing to go out his way to please you.

If you can relate to 75% and above things mentioned above your guy is in love with you and trust me “Don’t let him go”.

If its 50% give him time may be he is coming along.

If its less than 40% beware, keep your eyes and brains open and don’t fall blindly